By Patrick F. Cannon
I just got back from the Donnelly family reunion, held for many years in Pennsylvania’s beautiful Laurel Highlands, just a 45-minute drive southeast of Pittsburgh. With some mountains exceeding 3,000 feet, and river valleys famous for trout fishing, it is one of America’s great landscapes. Overlooking one of its streams is Frank Lloyd Wright’s Fallingwater, the most stunning home in America.
On a sadder note, the area is also the location of the Flight 93 National Memorial, which I visited – with my daughter Beth and son-in-law Boyd – for the first time. It’s not easy. I found myself choking up as I looked at the crash site and followed the story of the awful day in the Visitor’s Center.
The reunion itself was held at the Seven Springs Mountain Resort. In the winer, it’s a ski resort. In addition to the main hotel and associated cabins at the bottom of the ski runs, there are a series of condominiums at the top, whose owners rent them out in the off season. We have held the reunion there for many years (with time out for the stupid Covid pandemic).
Attendees, and there were about 80 this year (and two dogs!) are all descendants of Frank and Catherine Donnelly of North Braddock, Pennsylvania. They had seven surviving children, six girls and one boy. They produced 20 children. Seven of us are still alive, and all were at this year’s reunion.
Although the Donnelly’s were Irish, only my mother married an Irish man. My aunts married men named Goldstrohm, Rodgers, Sutman, Ratesic, and Orzulak. My only uncle, Paul, was represented by a granddaughter.
When I was a little kid, we often had family picnics in Pittsburgh area parks. But the first organized reunion I attended was (I think) 56 years ago. My son Patrick was an infant, and my wife Mary and I travelled from Chicago in a VW Beetle named Whitey. By then, you could take toll roads the whole way. We stayed with my aunt and uncle, Harry, and Frances Suttman, in Glassport. The reunion itself was held at Renziehausen Park in McKeesport, the city downriver from Pittsburgh where I had gone to high school. We used a roofed pavilion for meals. Everyone brought something to eat, including fried chicken, potato salad, baked beans, and a big jar of pickled beets and hard-boiled eggs (which turned a nice shade of red). The pavilion was near a ball field, and we were then young and numerous enough to play softball.
As we got older and more prosperous, we decided to move it to Seven Springs, which not only offered stunning views, but sports facilities, including a testing golf course. We often were able to organize three foursomes, always including my golf-nut brother Pete, who, in addition, was the energetic life of any party. I miss him every day, but his wonderful family lives on, including his wife Mary Beth, herself a golf nut.
The reunion is a bi-annual event. In the last two off-years, we (my daughter Beth and son-in-law Boyd) have travelled to Pittsburgh and hosted a mini-reunion dinner for whoever can make it. I obviously place immense value in these family events. And I am not alone. When I used to travel on business, more than once I stayed at a hotel that hosted a reunion for black extended families. I found out that these are common. And just the other day, I read an obituary for a former Chicagoan who had moved to Buffalo to teach at a state university. He played host to annual reunions at his summer home in the Chautauqua area of New York.
Maybe your family gets together on a regular basis. If they are scattered to Chicago, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, Florida, and California, as mine is, it may not be as convenient, but what could be more important than family?
Copyright 2025, Patrick F. Cannon